After successful introductions you invite your new friends into the bar to have a drink. The Vulcans don’t seem to be having a very good time however, so you ask them if they are enjoying themselves.
“We are fine. We just do not believe in outward displays of emotion.”
“Are you saying you don’t dance, party, have fun?” you exclaim.
“We prefer to spend our time in other pursuits” the Vulcan replies.